Summary:

have you guys ever deal with haters? like bringing u down,bullying y’all. and lastly calling you mean names.. check out my blog and i’ll write about how to deal with haters.

What is a “Hater?”

“Hater” is a label used to refer to people who use negative and critical comments and behavior to bring another person down by making them look or feel bad. These hurtful and negative comments can be delivered in person, online, or in texts and apps. Often, the comments and behavior are repeated over time. Haters are often anonymous (especially online) but they can also be acquaintances, peers, or people who were once considered friends. Hateful, critical behavior is another form of bullying or cyberbullying. Like bullying, hater behavior is something that a person does – it is not who they are, and it can be changed.

How to deal with haters?.

Ignore it. Walk away. Don’t react or respond to negative comments. If it continues, there are other things you can do. If someone threatens you, report it to a parent, teacher, or other trusted adult!

Block online haters. If someone is making negative or hateful comments on your posts or account, or is cyberbullying, block them. If they’re threatening you, tell your parents, report it to the platform, and take screenshots.

Be kind and respectful, even to haters. It shows that you’re in control of your emotions and that you aren’t letting negativity bring you down.

Stick with supporters. Having a friend nearby if you think you might encounter a hater not only makes it less likely that an incident might happen, but also means you’ll have positive reinforcements just in case.

Remind yourself that comments from a hater are a reflection of them and aren’t really about you. People who feel good about themselves don’t need to put others down.

Understand criticism can be a sign of pain. People sometimes lash out because they have other life struggles. Negative comments may have nothing to do with you.

Acknowledge your feelings. Talk to a trusted adult or friend and get some encouragement and support.

Keep being you. Keep moving forward, pursuing your interests, and being who you are.

Storytime

I have dealt with haters all the time. like yesterday my screenshot in instagram was posted about my opinion about cancel culture ab not toxic. and of course it got posted and 100+ people liked it and saw it. the comments were like 8 comments and of course i was scared and anxious. coz the internet can be very mean. and of course…. one of them say ” im too lazy to read that,not gonna read that” i misunderstood them for being mean for a second and this user said ” not u replying to comments,……”. i stand up what i believe in and of course i block them. because im uncomfortable. but i’m okay right now.

Update;

i’m gonna do some song recording,watch youtube and netflix and continue reading my book. and if i can i could have some solitude time and be myself. i’m on a detox diet for three days. it’s my last detox diet. so im trying my best i can.

Words of Affirmations .

be the best version you wanna be 🙂

Thank you so much Guys💜